Private-pay online therapy · NY, NJ, CA & VA

More clarity.
Less pressure.
A steadier way forward.

Private-pay online therapy for men, professionals, and couples in New York, New Jersey, California, and Virginia. Practical support for anxiety, burnout, and relationship strain.

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Tony Lopez, licensed psychotherapist
Tony LopezLicensed psychotherapist · 15+ years
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Clinically grounded.Direct, practical, human.
Individual therapy$250 / 50 minCouples therapy$300 / 50 minChristian integrationWhen desired

When “fine” is not the full story

You can be successful and still feel maxed out.

Maybe you are carrying constant pressure, snapping more than you want to, or feeling distant from the people who matter most. Therapy can help you understand the pattern, lower the noise, and make changes that hold up in real life.

  • 01Stress that never fully turns off
  • 02Anxiety and overthinking
  • 03Irritability or emotional shutdown
  • 04Relationship strain and disconnection

Ways to work together

Focused care,
without the clutter.

Clear session fees, practical therapy, and no package commitment. The work is shaped around what will actually help in your life.

01 / Individual50 minutes

Therapy for Men

Work through stress, anxiety, anger, burnout, faith questions, and relationship patterns with a direct, collaborative approach.

$250per session
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02 / Relationship50 minutes

Couples Therapy

Slow down recurring conflict, rebuild trust, and learn to hear each other without losing yourselves in the argument.

$300per session
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Tony Lopez · Ed.S. · LMHC-D

Direct, practical,
clinically grounded.

You will not be asked to perform therapy or speak in perfect feelings-language. We will make sense of what is happening, identify useful next steps, and work at a pace that respects your life and values.

More about Tony ↗
01

15+ years of clinical experience

Private practice, telehealth, Christian counseling, and behavioral health

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Doctor of Ministry candidate

Pastoral Counseling

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Ed.S. plus three M.A. degrees

Forensic Mental Health Counseling, Forensic Psychology, and Religion

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Redeemer and corporate experience

Care across Christian counseling and Fortune 500 environments

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NYU executive leadership training

Additional post-graduate leadership development

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What getting started looks like

A thoughtful beginning.
No pressure.

  1. 01

    Schedule a fit call

    Choose a time for a brief, private 10-minute conversation.

  2. 02

    Talk it through

    Ask questions, share what is bringing you in, and get a sense of the approach.

  3. 03

    Decide on the fit

    If it feels right, we will find a regular time and begin the work.

A few practical questions

Before we begin.

Still wondering about something?

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01What are your session fees?

Individual sessions are $250 and couples sessions are $300. Each session is 50 minutes.

02Is faith part of every session?

No. Christian integration is available when desired and is guided by your preferences and values.

03Where do sessions take place?

Sessions are held online in New York, New Jersey, California, and Virginia, with availability in nine additional states. Explore state availability and confirm your location and appointment openings during the fit call.

04Do I need to commit to a package?

No. Sessions are scheduled individually, with no package commitment.

A brief conversation is enough to begin

Let’s see if the fit
feels right.

Start with ten minutes. Ask questions, share what is bringing you in, and decide whether working together makes sense.

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$250 individual$300 couples50-minute sessions